Ladies, i am the maid of honor in my girl's wedding. ppl been asking me if i have a speech ready? it is most definately NOT ready, i get real nervous if i have to speak in front of a bunch of ppl, in class i would have my friend ask questions for me (yeah i know it's crazy). i asked some of my friends and some say that i have to give a speech and some say i don't, but i think the bride expects me to. i don't wanna upset her (it is HER special day) but i don't wanna make a fool of myself in front of 100+ ppl. what do u think i should do?