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    My Mom sent me this e-mail. In my mind this goes without saying but I figured I'd post it.

    The Truth

    IF a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.

    If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

    Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

    Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

    Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's
    not meant to be. Slower is better.

    Never live your life for a man before you find
    what makes you truly happy.

    If a relationship ends because the man was not
    treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be
    friends."

    A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

    Don't settle.

    If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

    Don't stay because you think "it will get better."

    You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying
    when things are not better.

    The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

    Avoid men who've got a bunch of children
    by a bunch of different women.

    He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
    Why would he treat you any differently?

    Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

    Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.

    If something bothers you, speak up.

    Never let a man know everything.

    He will use it against you later.

    You cannot change a man's behavior.

    Change comes from within.

    Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...
    even if he has more education or in a better job.

    Do not make him into a quasi-god.

    He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

    Never let a man define who you are.

    Never borrow someone else's man.

    If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

    A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
    All men are NOT dogs.

    You should not be the one doing all the bending...
    compromise is two way street.

    You need time to heal between relationships...
    there is nothing cute about baggage...

    deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.

    You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...

    a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...

    look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.

    Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.

    Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are,
    and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.

    Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man.

    Don't fully commit to a man who
    doesn't give you everything that you need.

    Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

    Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone smile, another
    rethink her choices, and another woman prepare.

    They say it takes a minute to find a special person,
    an hour to appreciate them,
    a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.


    Spread the Truth!
    Last edited by Orchid; 10-23-2008 at 07:08 PM. Reason: Deleted note at beginning
    I'm just telling the truth.

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    This is a good read, i hope every woman who reads this takes something from this...

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    that was reallly good it was a reminder as to what i need to do
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    ima keep it trilla cus im a real street nigga but aint know chick gon read dat or even understand it especially in the hood these hoodrats do wat they want u feel me, they rather have a nigga like me acting like he dont care and they always sweating a nigga, if i simp way through her she gon think im lame ass nigga. So with that being said chicks aint gon do dat shyt dey want thug ass niggas.

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    Not every chick,somebody gon read this and take somethin from it cuz they goin thru something wit some nig in they life...sometimes women need an eye opener when dealing wit men, cuz most of tha time they playin games and not bein real....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fresh2defsheis View Post
    Not every chick,somebody gon read this and take somethin from it cuz they goin thru something wit some nig in they life...sometimes women need an eye opener when dealing wit men, cuz most of tha time they playin games and not bein real....
    Well said fresh
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    Quote Originally Posted by orchid1197 View Post
    Well said fresh
    :happy002:..thanx orchid...why is it when us girls try to do somethin for us some guy always got somethin to say...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fresh2defsheis View Post
    :happy002:..thanx orchid...why is it when us girls try to do somethin for us some guy always got somethin to say...

    Like Shawty Lo said "big up to all my haters"
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    Foolish

    I feel like a fool cuz I'm falling
    I feel like a fool cuz I'm there
    I feel like a fool cuz I'm stuck on you
    I feel like a fool cuz I'm scared

    I feel like I'm ignorant cuz I just met you
    I'm waiting for it to go wrong
    I keep thinking you're to good to be true
    Like the ending of a sad love song


    I remember the pain of times before
    I remember the tears in my eyes
    I remember that love has never found me
    I remember the agony of lies


    It would just be easier if you weren't feeling it
    It would just be easier if you lied
    It would be easier if you just disappeared in the night
    It would just be easier if you couldn't break my pride


    I wish you could find fault in me
    I wish you could just get mad
    I wish that you couldn't understand me
    I wish I didn't want you that bad


    I feel like a fool, cuz I'm open
    I feel like a fool and its true
    I feel like a fool and I'm slippin
    Cuz I feel like a fool over you

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    Quote Originally Posted by orchid1197 View Post
    Foolish

    I feel like a fool cuz I'm falling
    I feel like a fool cuz I'm there
    I feel like a fool cuz I'm stuck on you
    I feel like a fool cuz I'm scared

    I feel like I'm ignorant cuz I just met you
    I'm waiting for it to go wrong
    I keep thinking you're to good to be true
    Like the ending of a sad love song


    I remember the pain of times before
    I remember the tears in my eyes
    I remember that love has never found me
    I remember the agony of lies


    It would just be easier if you weren't feeling it
    It would just be easier if you lied
    It would be easier if you just disappeared in the night
    It would just be easier if you couldn't break my pride


    I wish you could find fault in me
    I wish you could just get mad
    I wish that you couldn't understand me
    I wish I didn't want you that bad


    I feel like a fool, cuz I'm open
    I feel like a fool and its true
    I feel like a fool and I'm slippin
    Cuz I feel like a fool over you

    Written by Jeska Washington
    ... i this one too

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