Keyshia's statements... boss b or big burd? This type of subject is always a tuffie to address because it has many overlapping dynamics...i will sort them out so that we can get on the same page with this issue
POINT 1. men get offended when women place "monetary value" on the cookies because they are fearful they may not meet the monetary criteria to get the a$$ they want
RULE 1. a man is angry when you separate him from gettin pu$$y that he wants
POINT 2. men value women who are a "challenge" and call women a slut or hoe if they arent a challenge. if women let everyone hit, there value decreases in mens eyes THEREFORE, women are forced to create "guidelines" for who they allow to have sex if they dont want to be seen as a "whore"
RULE 2. men's derogatory comments about "hoes" ADVERSLEY hurt themselves, because as a result of the comments women are guided to be selective about who they let hit to avoid being seen as a "hoe" or less valuabe
POINT 3. furthermore women desire protectors/providers. thats instinctive. that instinct is a NATURAL survival mechanism. Throughout history a woman and childrens survival depended on her mans ability to protect and provide for them. for survival, men and women subconsciously raise their girls to look for a provider. unfortunately mother nature and a mnas natural motivation no longer decide what "success" is. Now modern day society has "reinvented" what it means to "survive" and to be "successful." a man doesnt have to build a shelter or catch a rabbit, he has to "pay rent,” have "good credit" and get a "401K".
RULE 3 (though it saddens my heart) men value themselves not as beautiful functioning healthy-built-by-God-miracles but rather by how much money, materials they possess, and the types of women they can get to sleep with them
so the TRUE anger men have when women say, “you cant hit this, if you dont got that”...is anger toward a society that creates barriers to getting a job, a loan, a house, a 745 etc and achieving this created notion of “success. ”and because men cant blame the local and state government,t who is really the culprit keeping them from the pu$$y, they just get mad at women who say. "i dont want to share my body with a man unless he can provide me with something that is valuable or enables me to improve myself or my circumstances" which in reality, makes perfect sense because if women were more selective about who they let into their womb, we'd prolly erase the "dead beat dad" phenomena overnight...