TL, you acting like Nelly has to choose between the 2. You forget, Ashanti is a bird and Nelly has proven that he can do whatever and she's waiting in the wings no matter what. Nelly can have his fun with Tae and always have Ashanti as the back up plan.
I do not fully understand their "relationship" but I don't think Ashanti is a bird
"A man is what he thinks about all day long-emerson-"