2. So why isn't everyone gay?
3. So people should choose their mates based on what their families, friends, and society will accept more than what they themselves want, even if their families, friends and society don't want the same things, or more realistically, don't really give a **** about what YOU want, and just want to project their wants onto you?
Society? This is the same society that to this day portrays and treats black people as second class citizens? Why would you choose your mate based on what society wants???
You are a confused dude
Lemme ask you a question... how does who someone you will never meet fucks affect you?