You've mentioned quite a bit in your post and I will try to be brief as possible in answering the questions you have proposed. Firstly the title of this thread which has sparked this left turned debate is called "Sometimes I think Stephanie Santiago and Ayisha Diaz are the same person." with that being said, this thread is simply about the confusion of two hispanic women being the same person.
As a black male who's main interest is in black women why would I care about two Hispanic women being confused as the same person? Secondly, Hispanic men would NEVER make a post on their blogs or websites about if two black women are the same person so why are we making post about their women? When you combine this post with the many other post of latin and white women who are featured on this site more than black women, it becomes quite overwhelming to consume.
And to know that it is black men who are the driving force behind these posts, is extremely disappointing and hurtful to see it done so often. Posting more Hispanic women over black women on urban websites by black men means more desirability for Hispanic women over black women, more visibility and promotion for Hispanic women and less for black women. As I've said before, it is not only the black males on HHS.com who are doing this but many other black males on other urban websites who are doing the exact same thing.
This is an epidemic and not a new direction but a mis-direction because black men are missing the point. He's misdirecting his energy and interest outside of his race, his women and his community. It is something about the hardships, environment, lack of proper upbringing, education, lack of opportunity, social injustices, racial discrimination and white hatred that bring about anger in black men and that anger is demonstrated and targeted to those in his immediate environment and surroundings whether it is shooting and killing his fellow black man for stepping on his shoes, abandoning his children, or calling his black women a bitch or a hoe when she upsets him or for no given reason.
And you are absolutely wrong. If you stepped out of a male dominated hip hop cyber environment and visited black women forums such as S2S.com or angry black girl and many others where black women equally voice their opinions you will read and come to learn the black woman's thoughts about black men lusting over women of other races is not acceptable. Black women DO NOT appreciate and are angry that black men constantly lust and post women of other races on their websites.
Imagine if black women posted white and hispanic men on their blogs more than black men. If black men found out he would be outraged. Oh the hypocrisy! Black men have never forgiven Halle Berry for being f*cked like a dog by Billy Bob Thorthon in Monster's Ball.
The constant race disloyalty that black men constantly show towards black women have compelled many black women to seek alternative means in terms of dating and marrying men outside their race or they turn to lesbianism. Because of black men...it has gotten so bad for black women that black women are now dating Asian men (the least desirable male in the world's dating pool).
And yes. The women black men find attractive should be mainly black. Because if she was good enough for your daddy, she should be good enough for your black ass.