Dear Diva,
Yo wuz good Diva I was wondering why do you think it is us mean don’t want women after they F**k with someone else whether in a relationship or not but they will take us back with no problems or be with us even if we have been with other females?
Signed,
Undecided
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Hey Divo,
Well I’m glad you asked. The reason women put up with more sh!t than a man would is because we look at the bigger picture (sometimes), and women are more mature than men. Yeah I said it “WHAT”!!!!! Women tend to be fools for love and forgive men for their deceit in a relationship, that is the motherly instinct in us. Mothers will always love their children no matter what. However at the end of the day we are not your mommas so we only can take but so much. R. Kelly said it best when a women is fed up there ain’t nothing you can do about it. When we are done its done, there is no coming back, no I’m sorry’s, no I won’t do it again, no nothing!!!!. HEEEEEEEEEEEEEEELLLL you might be lucky if we even acknowledge that you are still a human being on this planet. Now in regards to a man’s stupidity and not wanting a woman back after they sleep with another man or woman is their own selfishness. Don’t know why you guys have this huge ego but at the end of the day it gets you NO WHERE and a woman always ends up in first place. What you might feel is tampered with is just some brand new coochie for someone else. LOL Now fellas when your ego gets in the way of your decision sit your sorry a$$ down and think it over.
Signed,
Diva
P.S. Divas just remember if you have a good man, it is not worth cheating.
I hate that saying men have if a woman cheats outside of her relationship then its a done deal. But when a man does it us woman our suppose to accept it and move on with them as if nothing happen. I honestly feel like this saying needs to die and disappear. The act is the exact same thing and both parties should be at fault so this saying to me is just an excuse. I’m sure the men feel devastatingly hurt when they come across a situation when they find there woman cheating but guess what NEWS FLASH Us women feel the exact same and probably more hurt because woman put their all into their relationships. So on that not get over it if you cant handle what you dish out don’t put it on the damn plate. Grow up men and appreciate the good women that you have in your life, and remember just as easily as you can cheat the woman in your life can easily do the same so appreciate what you guys have before it’s gone.